Advice from the ladies

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13 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 5:36pm
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What should a shy guy like myself do to get a girl's attention?

15 Aug
Think about the other things that are awesome about you and work it...are you funny, keep her smiling. Do you draw? Draw what you think about whenever you think of her... Be yourself and expand on what you naturally excel at.. :-)
15 Aug
Something I found online: Be Charismatic: The Mindset of the Charismatic Man You have two options. The first is you can make friends with one of those guys who have this irresistible Personal Magnetism, and imitate everything they do. Record their conversations, videotape their movements, analyze all the recordings and practice laughing the same way, touching people at the same moment in a conversation and making the same kinds of jokes. That would, however, be rather lame. The second option is more interesting: Realize that all his behaviorisms, words and actions spring from a fundamental mindset. He’s not THINKING about...
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19 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 5:41pm
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Put your wiener in her face.

15 Aug
Thanks but I don't think that will work
15 Aug
Oh god you're a pervert! I meant like a cony dog from sonic, weirdo.....
15 Aug
That's hilarious!
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4 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 5:44pm
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Well u shouldn't well in my opinion a girl should like you for who you are don't try to be someone u aren't just be you the right chick will come at you and like you for who you are!

15 Aug
I will def take that into consideration. Thanks:)
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132 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 5:52pm
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I know I an not a girl but I might have done decent advice. I was seriously shy up until last year. I got out if it by doing two things. Embracing what I love to do. I love break dancing and as I got better people recognized and gave me more confidence. And the other is just try talking to strangers occasionally. Don't have to be all girls. Just when chilling in the park, just start small talk. Practice makes perfect.

15 Aug
Appreciate it bro ima give it a shot
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25 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 6:05pm
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I find it good when a boy has self- confident and make jokes and he shouldn't be too inhibited
You will manage it!  Don't think to much about it :)

15 Aug
Thanks Kajol:)
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31 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 7:32pm
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Take your shirt off

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40 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 7:39pm
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Lol man2man homie just be yourself realtalk.com

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31 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 7:40pm
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Just be yourself girls love a shy guy 
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Aug 15, 2013 8:15pm

This will sound weird but here it goes... I was super shy so one night I decided to go out of my comfort zone and go out by myself. WEIRD. I thought everybody was looking at me like whos that loser out by himself. So it forced me to go up to groups of people and start talking to them. I did this for about a week and started to realize nobody even noticed I was by myself and I ended up meeting girls and being able to learn how to have conversation. I Continued to do it and got number after number and would start making new friends. It took over a month to get used to this but Now I perfer to go out by myself. It forces me to have conversations with strangers and I dont have to worry about anybody else. I would go up to 6 to 8 groups of girls a night and start conversations and read body language and see who is kinda flirting back and try to figure out who is easier to talk to and who would most likely want to go back home with me. Once you narrow it down to that one girl just drive it home that night and give it all you got. Before you know it you will be meeting plenty of chicks!

15 Aug
That's really cool advice! I love to network with other people! You never know who you will meet and/or talking to.... :-)
15 Aug
Thanks Avita! I do a lot of personal coaching and now im trying to get in to the whole physical aspect of things!
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Aug 15, 2013 8:49pm

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15 Aug
You can fax 9726756248 me for more love information also
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566 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 9:21pm
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You can never go wrong with flowers!
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Aug 15, 2013 10:59pm
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Lots of girls prefer a shy guy rather than someone cocky and self absorbed. So just be your self and the right girl will like you just for you
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27 Posts
Aug 15, 2013 11:43pm
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I know I'm not a girl xD & here's a way just make friends then talk like here then talking about what they say and start conversation that's what helped me x) I'm more of a talkative person lol, or like start saying hi or hello to the person start random conversation like oh so do you know where this is or that & then be like what's your name and stuff it's kinda hard to explain x) hope I explain some stuff ._. Lol
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122 Posts
Aug 16, 2013 12:07am
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Yeah take ur shirt off is good advice. Lol. Really, u just got to suck it up and be brave. Talk to her, try to keep the Convo up. Everyone's shy at times. You'll be okay, and ur super cute, so chances are that shell b interested.

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11 Posts
Aug 16, 2013 2:56am
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Make her laugh, be a gentleman to her and let her see she got your attention, do not sofocate her with calls and messages alll the time though, because she might think you are a stalker

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6 Posts
Aug 16, 2013 3:48am
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the best way to get her attention is just by being yourself, a simple exchange of words can do more then you think.

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