I'm wondering the exact same thing. Maybe a meet in the middle?
For me flat abs are more sexier. But maybe it's just me after all I'm a woman. Maybe men has other opinions
I like when a woman has a little tone - a girl with a six pack looks too masculine for me...
Flat for girls. Some can pull a six pack but that's... that's a bit much, like honestly even with an 8 pack and her with 6 I be kinda scared of her testosterone levels