If you work on toning, and cardio, you will find that the fluffy stuff will clean up.  All around resistance and core training will benefit you.  Focus on a different area each day.  Mix in cardio most days. Make sure you eat right. No fad diets. (Forget low carbs, vegetable only, no emphasis on single nutrients.)  Generally 15/30/55 protein/fat/carbs is a good balance of these nutrients. Eating the right foods will get you there.  Increase proteins a little if you are doing intense resistance/weight training.

Weight loss because you'll be getting toned and losing pounds at the same time and getting defition.

Is there a way I can gain muscle without looking really built and bulky you know what I mean?

Diets are unhealthy. Follow the Canadian food guide and eat healthily. You should start doing home excersise to begin working out, eventually moving to a gym and using weights and machines. Losing weight is great if you're obese which you are not, toning is adding muscle and losing fat but muscle ways more than fat so you may end up weighing more but looking amazing. Running is a good start to excersising, it's easy and fun if you have the right mind set to be healthy! If anything increase your calorie amount because you need the extra calories when you're excersising. You can start with excersises on here but If I were you I'd check out bodybuilding.com and they can help you find a program to suit your exact goal. It takes time patience and dedication, but being healthy never looked so good!!!

I've been counting my calories here lately. And I workout alot but I'm just so confused on what to do