Strange question but I'd like to know if women like men to shave/wax their chest/arms/legs or do they prefer men to be hairy?
Personally I don't like the hair on my legs but I can't really do anything about it since it's prohibited for a man to shave his legs/arms/chest in my religion :P Only the hair "down there" can be shaved off.
Do with what you feel good with. Dont let it depend on opinions of woman.
I say if u perfer shaved legs do it. U see more improvement of muscle. I personally shave legs and arms. And chest! Do it if u want to looks better
Firstly, we all have hairs almost everywhere (except very few places like palms or feet), so it is normal to be hairy :D especially ("just" would be a better word here o.o) for men. But I personally don't like guys whose chests are like the bears' fur! It's so for me. Absolute turn off, I can't imagine hugging him or resting my head on his chest . I am ok with normal amount of hair, but prefer none. (Just a personal opinion, other girls might like it). And the same is about absolutely hairy back and I know that it was nobody's choice to be or not to be hairy and that in some cases there can't be done anything.
The last thing I'd like to say is that you guys are a bit funny :D "if she told me to shave, she'd find front door quickly" "don't let women tell you what to do" (sorry, I don't remember exact words you used). But what if women were like you? :D what if we refused shaving our legs or armpits? It wouldn't be a nice view o.o so it is also about respect and agreement. If your girl shaves for you every day, you could also shave the hair she doesn't like at least once a week (if she isn't weirdo and doesnt want you to shave every part, that is too much. Even she wanting to shave your legs would be too much I think). And shaving down there should be done automatically