To The Guys...

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Celine123_thumb
129 Posts
Aug 3, 2013 4:54pm
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If a girl has low self confidence/self image problems/eating problems...does that turn you off? Would you break up with that girl or not even go for her because of that?

03 Aug
I have dated a girl with these personailty traits and girls who were bipolar. Everyones different, but if you truly like the person, in my opinion, you will be there for that person regardless of those traits and hopefully work with them together.
03 Aug
Id leave the breaking up to no chemistry or no trust, not personal behavior.
07 Aug
James, nicely said, you're a good dude. He's right.
07 Aug
Thanks!
08 Aug
If this starts hurting our relationship or if it feels like we r drifting apart I will try but it just may not work had this happen to my other gf
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10 Posts
Aug 3, 2013 5:05pm
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No if people don't accept what a person has to give then they not worth the time . Partner is there to help build not break down 
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78 Posts
Aug 3, 2013 5:32pm
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If I knew a girl like that, it would not change the way I feel about her. If anything, it would make me like them kind of more. I'd try to be around her as much as possible and help her through whatever she is going through.

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15 Posts
Aug 3, 2013 6:08pm
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I think you try to find a way to build up her confidence and overcome her issues. Isn't that what a relationship is all about? Helping each other grow?
Funky_side_crow_thumb
289 Posts
Aug 3, 2013 9:48pm
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I dated a girl who suffered from low self esteem and bulimia. She was one of the nicest, kindest, most gorgeous women I have ever met. We broke up because I was an idiot. Not because of anything to do with her. So in my case the answer is no.

If being imperfect is a deal breaker we'd all be single wouldn't we!? :)

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1023 Posts
Aug 4, 2013 2:05am
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Tbh if i know yes. Sounds like alot of drama in the making. But me being shallow if she is really hot i prolly would give it a try.

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8 Posts
Aug 4, 2013 4:46am
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Where the girls at(; I'm friendly
Celine123_thumb
129 Posts
Aug 4, 2013 5:14am
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Thanks for the answers guys ^^

04 Aug
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160 Posts
Aug 7, 2013 3:44am
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Everyone has probelm but if u complain about ur probelms rather than trying to fix them then yea that maybe a reason why someone will considering breaking up.

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8 Posts
Aug 8, 2013 5:36am
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I totally agree with Anthony. You use energy to help build her as well as trying to convince her why you're with her. It's not a turn off but I like a girl but to be egotistic but confident and secure of her strengths whether it's looks, brains, or a endearing personality.

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22 Posts
Aug 8, 2013 3:27pm
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Well my grlfrnd ws d same...bt f d guy supports get through it...she comes out of it....i helped my girl

04 Oct
Dude spk englsh crctly! Usn lttrs lke dis is stpd n lzy.....n ppl rnt gunna b abl to ndrstnd u.
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221 Posts
Aug 8, 2013 4:15pm
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i would definitely try my best to uplift her. i wouldnt think less of her no

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667 Posts
Aug 8, 2013 4:52pm
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If I think she's beautiful I'll tell her. So not really worried about the confidence. As long as she doesn't eat my food I'm a happy chappie
07 Sep
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70 Posts
Oct 3, 2013 4:30am
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If a guy leaves that relationship, it's either because he believes he's causing the harm or because he's an asshole

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953 Posts
Oct 3, 2013 4:45am
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Some guys target/prey on this, or are attracted to it cuz somewhere in their minds they know it puts them in a more powerful position. This can be true even if the guy is not aware that's how he works.

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667 Posts
Oct 3, 2013 6:57pm
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Nope not a turn off at all. Those problems can be fixed easily
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170 Posts
Oct 3, 2013 7:02pm
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If I really do love her then I will try to help her instead of breaking her heart but at the same time she has to respond, like as an example some girls if u tell them that they have to become a better person they get mad and instead of being able to help them u give up

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