Hi all! I really have a problem with my height. I'm only 5ft and that's a terrible height for a guy. Even though I'm Asian, this is not our average height. Most of my friends are above 5'7" and those who are close to me are 5'11"-6'1". Im too short when I'm with them. This affected my self esteem and even if I workout and have a good body, I feel that I'm not good enough. I feel like I'm too ugly that no girl could like me. I'm looking for a way to accept this and stop belittling myself. I tell myself "Who cares if I'm short? I'm sexier than most people." but it's not enough to convince myself. Btw, I'm in my 20 somethings so puberty is a thing in the past and I can't grow naturally anymore.
Thanks! I'm trying to accept it but I can't accept the fact that people mistreat me because of it as if height is the basis of capability and intelligence.
Well look at it this way it ain't gonna change is it? So what you are short. . . You're fit and healthy i assume? Two arms? Two legs? No terminal illness? Loving family? Friends?
Learn to be grateful for what you do have rather than what you do not have.
People can and will come to accept you as you are. You need to do the same.
Hey... its not kind of problem man... its all fine... u know what ppl mistreat u coz u accept and u agree with them that ur short.. bt guess what u r nt.. only height n personality is nt everything... n really u look good. U hav no disabilities.. u have good personality n body... u should nt feel bad for ur self. But u should feel bad for those who mistreat u or make fun of u.. coz they have just height but no manners n brain.. it still long to go.. so never worry just be urself... and i strongly believe that if u r being urself.. u r the BEST in the world..
I am small and I love it. There are so many advantages if you look for them. I would share mine but you have to find your own . Besides, no one really notices peoples height. Its more about their personality
I read a study awhile back where researchers asked a variety of girls what they preferred in a guy physically. Besides the obvious, shorter, more muscular guys made the cut on the list before tall skinny guys, and chubby tall guys. Just work with what you have and make it awesome. And always be confident, but not cocky.