I washed dishes and cleaned the floor the day before yesterday. Hoping I could make my tea and work out. ALL the dishes are now dirty. There are food wrappers and soda cans all over the floor.. im so mad I can't even make tea or put my mat down and I bought coke zero 12 pack because I like it occasionally and its gone.. there are frozen taquitos and icecream and not much that's healthy to eat because he shopped. He offered me cheesecake after he already suggested we get fast food and I ate McDonalds I said no. So he brings it up anyway and says I should have it. I ended up eating it! He's still sleeping now and I have to beg him to go for a walk he says no because he "will get sweaty". He gained 40 pounds.. idk what to do I cant live like this and I don't wanna clean what I already cleaned to workout... im also so bored!! Sorry for going off but maybe someone here will get it.
Yeah, and he has to want it too. It can't be your responsibility to make him do the right thing. But you cannot let him sabotage you.
I'm just gonna tell him how serious it is to me and that it's not just for appearance its so I can feel better and be healthy. I don't think he gets that part as much.
Idk but it sure sounds like it would be a good idea to dump him & move on with your own awesome life