I'm sick and tired of people telling me that I need to relax and eat like the rest of the world during the holiday season because "it's the holidays, duh!!!". If I try to deny desert or not go for a second plate it's like I'm freaking sinning. I place most of the blame on myself for being easily influenced. Between thanksgiving and christmas I gained 10 pounds. SICK AND TIRED OF BEING SICK AND TIRED!!!WHO IS WITH ME!!! I wish everyone would just shut up and let me work out and calories whenever I want!!!!!