I absolutely lack the will power to lose weight . The want and the desire is there , but the will power isn't I just found out my sister lost 15 pounds and even though that's really good for her it's a struggle for me because she has always been skinnier and better looking than me .. I'm at a loss I'm giving up I mean I just can not do it I want to but the will power is driving me crazy I want to be skinny but being fat is so much easier right wrong I hate looking at myself in the mirror all I ever think is maybe if I were skinnier or prettier maybe I would have a guy who respects me the right ways and not one who doesn't even really respect me now ... I can't help but think these things because it seems to me that of a girl looks the guy respects her or it appears that way ... I'm just at a point where I want this really bad and then also at the point where I'm just done trying but I don't want to be fat and miserable ugh
You need to respect yourself first. Work with your self-esteem and self-image. Hating and loathing yourself will not get you anywhere. Finding a partner who respects and loves you has nothing to do with your bodyweight, it has to do with what you yourself feel you deserve.
I'm fat and I have a partner who loves me, respects me and treats me like an equal human being. I deserve having a partner like that.
Probably not what you want to hear, and sometimes even harder than just losing weight. One upside though, besides feeling better about yourself: weight-loss often follows when you start treating your body with respect because you like yourself.
Hi Victoria, I just want to say I don't know you but if I may I'd like to tell you that a real man will love your soul and not your looks...I'm happily married with kids and there's always ups and downs but never give up on yourself nor anyone around you....
All what you need to do is change your mind... You can change your life just make right decisions and never give up.. Don't crack underpressure ;)
You are not hopeless! I feel you in all ways cuz I felt that same feeling. I have been heavy when I was lil and have fluctuated with weight since then. Now I made a commitment to better my health and be happy. I am here for you if you need help. I still struggle a lil when working out but I push myself. Now it's getting easier. Just have fun with it! Good luck on your goals and do it for YOU!
my sister is going through this. shes always been so so with how she looked but lately she's became depressed. ive went through same and a bit now but ive done this before and know i can again. so can you!
If you want to lose weight Lose it for yourself. This easy, you need courage not force