Rude "Friends" - wieght comments : help
So i was just hanging out with my "friends" at lunch and we were going back and forth with lame jokes we could come up with. One of my friends said something along the lines of "Why did Ellie cross the road? To go to the gym to loose weight." All my friends were laughing and i thought it was really rude.They sometimes say little mean things to me about my weight that i push off, but this time it really got me upset.
In gym we had fitness day and I pushed myself to the limit. I did about 200% more than i had to and my friends were yelling at me for trying to work so hard. Its been hard. I've only lost a few pounds so far, but i still need support. What do I do and what do i say to them?
if someone is doing nothing but holding you down or making you feel bad so they can fill up in a friend and you need to tell them that and what you told them that they continue you need to find new friends..
the other side of this is you need to decide do you want to lose weight for you are you doing it for other peoples impressions on for them to compliment you..
if you doing it for you it doesn't matter what they think im it doesn't matter what they say..
but I do suggest you find some friends were supportive..
hugs honey and good luck
Get a new set of friends...
You can certainly find people who accept you and try to support your goals.... Like right here.Good luck! & I'd if you ever need to vent or anything, you can csll on me! Lol... & use it to motivate your workouts. Don't forget that you are much much more than what you look like, and whoever misses that misses out!!
Do not lisen
Sounds like u mite b young? If thats the case the ppl ur pals with now u wont b in a few years. Dont sweat there crap. Iv been in ur shoes and lol boy do they got some things coming to em! Stick to wat u want and wat makes u happy and let the so called friends hang themselves!
I weigh about 148 and am 5'4". I am unsure of my bmi
Wow. You know I've been in situations like that where people that I thought were my friends would humiliate me about anything. But then one day I said Screw'em all and I cut off alot of people from my life. If working out and trying to be healthy makes you happy then as a true friend they should respect that. If they don't... Let'em go. I really hope everything works out for you though. Good luck