I think its time for a new husband! My first husband wasnt as bad, but he wasnt supportive. Made fat jokes about me when i was pregnant. I got fed up and started to loose weight, left him and moved on with my life. Now im remarried and had more kids and the weight is back, plus some. my husband now tells me all the time he loves me no matter what size i am. you deserve to feel good about yourself. Keep your head up.
Yea.. I'd have to agree. A relationship you're supposed to support eachother. NOT bring them down. :P If you haven't already i'd talk to him and tell him that his negativity to Everything you do is only making you want to quit and not helping at all and onlu making you feel worthless. You aren't!! If he doesn't start supporting and keeps on making you feek worse i'd have to say leave him! You can do so much better and be much happier with someone else!
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I agree that's not right of your husband. How are you supposed to feel good if the one person who's supposed to love you no matter what keeps bashing you. I know it is easier said then done, but do what you want. How you feel. If you like your body then leave it alone, if you want to be skinnier, or bulk up then do it. You have to he happy for yourself no one else. My boyfriend does the same thing kinda but instead of bashing me he tells me to gain weight.
I take it you have kids and are very busy on top of this negative attitude your getting. Can I ask you something? Why do you want to excersise? Is it for you or him? He has to understand you cannot out dye yourself. You have to do what makes you comfortable, and what YOU think is best for you..
Damn sorry to hear wat ur goin thru but don't give up there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Me personally I love proving ppl wrong u tell me o can't do some thing and I'm not gonna rest until I prove that I can and when I do I'm gonna rub ur nose in it. Aka any real man and he will tell u women are the stronger of the two sexes yall deal wit way more then any man would in life and I know u have the strength to ova come this. If u ever need any kind of support or motivation I'm here for u keep I head up ma