At 19 I had what most people worked hard for ...a body naturally chiseled and toned.95 pounds. I'm 5'3 . Then I had my daughter. Now Eight years later I weigh 113 .I'm OK with it but I know if I keep pushing I can get toned again.but having her changed my body.... more than I thought.b/c I was tiny n she was big I now have stretch marks n ..well ima start dating again....so does it matter? Would u date someone with that?