I have been there and done that! What is her drug of choice? Are you using drugs? Important question, answer if you want.
I eat that crap all day but im a drywaller! Im not sure how to handle that one . Most of us do strange thing in one way shape or form.
I know it sounds cliche, but it's true. Yoga can help tremendously.
I too have an addition. I feed my addition with exercise and prayer. Sometimes I feel like it's not working. I wake up with headaches, then the light comes on an I find myself at an aa meeting. I am blessed to have the ability to walk and get back to the "living life," again.