The first step to stop caring is- to learn to love YOURSELF. If you dont love yourself it is nearly impossible to not care.
Hope this helps:)
I just ingore
Who gives a fuck what ppl think of u
The only that matters is
What do u think of urself
People will always judge you. Not everyone will like you, like the way you dress, how you look etc. I am surrounded by people who seek perfection. I am judged by my family friends, everyone. I just learned to not give a f***. Do stuff that makes ME happy not to please other people. If I want to wear something outrageous, you know damn well I'm going to wear that with confidence even though others may think it's not right or hate on it, who cares? What is the point in stressing over what other people think of you when you can rather just be happy being you and do as what you want freely. Because you can't please everyone. You can be the most beautiful nicest sweetest person and there will be someone who dislikes you.
My personal beliefs are there's only one that I need to please..and that is why I don't too much worry about what others think...
This may be out of context Ashley but this is what I think. I feel it is extremely important to worry about what ppl think of you. In my business we say perception is reality. It doesn't matter what the truth is, for example I used to get feedback that a lot of people thought I was extremely snooty, so they would not come and talk to me. I always thought I was the mixing sort and felt that maybe cause I was well to do that is impression was created. I took this feedback on board and decided to change this image of myself.
My point is not to be affected by what ppl think of u. But to use that as feedback to become even better!
I used to really care about what people thought of me. It drove me crazy and made me so self conscious. I was anxious in public and terrible. Then, I found that it was because I didn't think much of myself. I figured, if I think I'm awkward, ugly, fat, etc. then others must think the same! Over the past few months, I've done things to make me feel better about myself and I know that I like myself a lot more and I don't really care what people think of me because they MUST know that I'm amazing :) You have to care about yourself before others can. Then, if someone is hating on you, you can just know that they're wrong and have nothing better to do. Who cares?
Some people can be jerks I learned from one of my friends at school you just have to be happy with who you are and not care what other people think about you what you think is what matters.
I always feel like people judging me when I'm in church because they don't really know me. I don't usually get involved. I always keep to myself.
Be your true self at all times, no matter what. Always say what you want to say and do what you want to do. Life is so short, we dont realize until someones end's how little time we have.
You cant change what other people feel , so dont let how they feel change you!
Try getting involved with things in the church remember we are the church and the church is the body of Christ. Just like our bodies have many members like the hands, eyes, so forth. The church consists of different people with different personalities. My point is we all need each other to function properly as a body, as a whole. Maybe once you start getting involved more you will find your calling. As for people judging you well do their opinions matter? Are they paying your bills or helping you? If not then stay focused and only listen to the voices of encouragement. Pray and ask Jesus for desernment and for him to lead you. He will never fail you.
When life puts you up against mean and hurtful people, think of them as sandpaper. They may push you or rub you the wrong way. But in the end you'll be smooth and polished and the sandpaper will just be worn out and ugly. #FightingTemptations
I was bullied at school for the way that I look, they usually told me that I have an amazing body but my face doesnt fit with my body, but I look exactly the same as I did when I was in primary school, so I am struggling to love myself seriously my self confidence is literally non existent.
WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF ME IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS. END OF STORY.
Words to live by