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Jun 1, 2013 6:51pm
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is this okay?? Me and 3 friends are ditching our other "friend" cause they make us all feel like were nothing, they always bully and make fun of other people, they dont treat us with respect, is a bad influence and gossips. We tried to talk about it, but she always starts a fight, and starts complaining

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Jun 1, 2013 6:58pm
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Some people can't help themselves. Maybe it's a reflection if something going on at home you don't know about. Let her know again how her actions affect you and others and be firm about letting her know why you don't feel like you'll be able to hang out. The worst thing you can do is not be straight with her; for her sake and the sake of the people she impacts with her negativity. If she values your friendships and opinions, she will change.
01 Jun
Agreed. This has been going for the past 4 months. It started with a hangout, at one the girl's house. And she walks in, and disrespects the girl, in that girls own house. We tried several times to talk, but she says sorry, and keeps being disrespectful. Over Summer Break, we plan on ignoring her, and going on with life with happiness. We don't want negativity in our childhood. Cause we told her straight up, we dont want to be friends, and she thought it meant just for acouple of days, and came back up to us, clinging and bullying,...
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Jun 1, 2013 9:02pm

That's reall too bad. She might need to be seen by a specialist. Looks like you did everything you could. Best to move on. Maybe she will come around some day, but youve got the right attitude about it. It's hard to sometimes do what's best for yourself and others, but its almost always the right thing to do.

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