Help with breakup..
I'm so so sorry tht is terrible :( if u lov him thn its gonna take time...but realize if he is th one for u thn he will come back to u ...I'm not sure ths will help but whn I was 16 Ths woman was talking and I remember her talking bout whn sh was n high school sh was n lov with ths guy and they broke up and sh said if they hadn't sh wud hav married him thn sh said ewwww....y I remembered tht I dnt knw but th point is time changes things who knws one day years later or so u good look back on th day and b saying ewwwww...and thn thnk bout th man ur with and b so thankful tht things turned out th way they did ..I dnt knw if tht was much help or not but everything is going to b ok
I'm so sorry, and I know it will be hard now, but if he's left he didn't deserve you and you can now do so much better. I had a nasty break up 5 years ago and I remember being completely devastated at the time but now I am so relieved I did because it was how I met my husband. What I am trying to say is that although a break up will hurt it allows you to meet someone who actually deserves you. You look beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have you :)
It's okay it will get better , if he really cares and realizes what he lost he will come back. How long were you together? That will make a big difference and I know I don't know you but I know love is difficult and there is a big difference if you love a person and if your in love with someone. I know its hard but it will het better n.n :)
Workout, meet new friends, find workout pal's on Skimble. Most importantly let go n let God.
So far all great advice, which is why I like this app. Everyone willing to help meet exercise, personal and spiritual goals.
Now back to the question at hand. Break ups sucks, take your time to heal and process everything but remember this. You can not change the past so there is no sense in dwelling on it, but your current actions can shape you future. So keep your chin up, realize that you have a lot to offer and show your ex what they lost out on. Be confident in who you are.
Well only u will knw hw to handle...I am goin thru de same..its been a yr n a half nw...it takes time if de person is really special n if u have really loved dem....I focus on work...joined skimble,really supportive ppl here...I play a sport....jus keep urself occupied n good tins will come ur way....its jus hope...take care of urself too!!!
There are two kinds of people that come into ones life, "blessings,and lessons" obviously it wasn't meant to be,therefore God has bigger and better things in store for u..so my advice,leave him in the past and take time for urself and one day u will see that God truley does" bless the broken roads" God bless!
Chuck out EVERYTHING you own of his. Dont listen to music that reminds u of him. Whatever makes you think of him get rid of it! Itll take months years eventually youll realize that you cant member your memories that clear anymore.. which is a good thing lol being a momma to a guy i thought loved me made me completely broken when he and i seperated. After awhile you have to forgive him for hurting you, takes alot but it helps you move forward. Dont throw yourself at guys but go out, breath. Your single, free. Be happy and thankful that you have a chance to find someone who wont want a 'break' or whatever. Excuse are excuses. If he hurts you once, shame on him but if he hurts you twice, no offence but shame on you(trust me ive been in the 'give him a chance' shit, you get mind fucked..) but all i can say is, his an ex for a reason. Sorry love, you will find someone, even if it does take time :) time heals a broken wound, let time take its course xxxxxx always here if you need someone to talk to
listen the song we are never ever ever ever getting back together by Taylor swift.u will fell better.
Draw a clear cut line, tell them where that line is, and if they're not on your side of it then - move on and be strong enough to never look back.
What realy helped me when i used to broke up was doing sport and workout harder to make jalous my ex i was realy busy no time to think about her! And when i saw her at the pool she wasn't looking my eyes and this was realy realy a good revenge (and i was in shape too) soo workout, putt your mind and body into sport and you wilk past this step eazzzzzyyy
If you need help just tell! Skimble community is here to cheer you up
Im going to say something n it may sound bad..but its true. .n it something you have to realize to make you stronger. .He doesn't care for you like you care for him. SO FUCK HIM! I know you love him, n it hurts..but you do you n make yourself feel good..workout..get ur hair, nails done..feel good. N keep your mind busy. Hope this makes you feel better sweetie, cuz ur worth better then ur X.
Well think of it from an another perspective , don't think of the good times u spent with him and start thinking of the times he made you sad , this wouldn't completely fix ur problem but it will make u hate him until u get over it after that u will have to go on with life , maybe stay single or meet a new guy maybe a better one , it all goes back to ur choice :)
I really thank you All for your tipps and kindness. It feels good to read how nice you guys are to me. The relationship wasn't very long. It was 4months and a few days. But it still hurts. The point is,ppl have warned me and told me that he only wants some fun because he does that often(tell a girl that he loves her,have some fun ans than break up) they told me but i didn't believe them and now he left me like their told me and i feel so stupid! I am really stupid and next time i won't ignore those warnings..
But..back to the topic.. I think that i really Do more sports and stay busy so that i don't have time to cry or even think of him anymore. TheTipp that i should make myself happy with making my nails and hair i like pretty much and would Do that too!
I really really thank all of you! You are so great and lovely, thank you!!
Hey Dana, I'm very sorry to hear about your breakup. Dude has to be majorly messed up in the head to break up with a beautiful lady like yourself. You're gonna feel hurt and pain because you have a part of yourself to him. But soon, you'll have a man that will give you his very all. He will love you better, harder, and with more love and care than anyone else on this earth. Hope this helps you realize how great you are.
Read this article...might help.
Just think. Fuck thst nigga, I'm goin out. I'm doin me.
No man is worth your tears and the one who is will never make you cry
Love is not love until you find the real and last one... is hard but best thing to do is your life as normal as possible... will take few days or weeks then no problem.