Self conscious

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22 Posts
Dec 30, 2013 2:42pm
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I love a girl in my neighborhood, but I haven't been able to ask her for friendship.
I'm somehow shy.
Do you think body fitness would solve my self conscious problem?

30 Dec
I can only help.
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565 Posts
Dec 30, 2013 4:17pm
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If it would help yourself, yes.
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Dec 30, 2013 4:33pm
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You know what? You just have to stop being a pussy. Go talk to her. Next time you see her just go stop her and say "Hey i'm Amir, I live next door and I throught I whould say hi" your gonna make her smile. I promise. And i'm serious do it next time you see her. Dont weight fore the perfect moment, because if you do it wont EVER happen!
30 Dec
Thanks for suggestion.you know we have lived in same neighborhood for 4 years,and everytime we saw each other,we have just passed without doing anything. It's hard to talk to her after these years.
30 Dec
Okay. I got no experience here, but you might want to start talking to all your neighbors. That way you wont Come across as needy or weird. Your just going to be the guy who talks to everyone :)
01 Jan
NO NO NO DO NOT go talking to ur neighbors about business, that will make u look neardy n weird! Just b urself n get urself 2do it, that would b cool!
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22 Posts
Dec 30, 2013 7:37pm
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What should I say in first impression?

01 Jan
Hey lets go have sex! Or you can use callas suggestion.
01 Jan
Hey lets go have sex... well there are worse ways to approach it. For some girls, myself included, that actually might work!
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Jan 1, 2014 9:23pm
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Okay, some advice from a girl here.

And this will sound sooo redundant... but seriously, just go introduce yourself! Even if you have lived in the same neighborhood for twenty years- it makes no difference.

I dont care who the guy is, i always appreciate it when a guy spontaneously comes up and starts talking to me. It really does put a smile on my face. Chances are it will work with her too.

Just make sure that you walk into the conversation with a bit more to say than just your name. Ask how her day has been going, or something to that CASUAL extent.

Just relax darling. Dont think about it so much! Just go do it.
Best of luck with your girl.

01 Jan
First of all..are you sure you live her? You don't even know her...secondly, don't be shy..I know its hard but the guy to talk to her before you will ask her out and be the one making the memories not you... I like what someone posted..just be the guy that talks to everyone.. That's cute..go for it :-)
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565 Posts
Jan 2, 2014 1:00am
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Compliment her.
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