i see a lot of people on here saying "trying to lose" and their stomach is already flat and im over here feeling like a blob now
There are heaps of fat people and thick people and generally out of shape people on here. I guess you see only the skinny people since you're in some kind of illusion of being the only not-skinny person. I don't know, that's how I felt when I was young.
Anyways, YES there are a lot of skinny people asking for advice on losing weight. That doesn't mean they need to lose weight and it certainly doesn't mean that you're a blob. I guess some of them have eating disorders and some of them have distorted body images.
This is about YOU, your body, your life, your confidence. Nothing else, no one else.