What Would You Rather Hear?

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Jan 24, 2014 6:49am
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Would you rather be told the truth about yourself, or lies? Be it bad or good?

24 Jan
I'd say the truth. It hurts worse when you are being lied to and find out the truth in the end. Honesty is the main key in everything.
24 Jan
Very true Stefanie
26 Jan
I would rather the truth
28 Jan
24 Feb
Truth will set you free but not slot if ppl have the balls to say so
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130 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 7:12am
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Truth hurts, but you need to know the truth to change for the better!

24 Jan
That is probably the first time I've heard that response from a woman lol
24 Jan
If I am fat I want to know. Lol especially this time last year I was morbidly obese, but no one dared to say anything. I gave myself the reality check. Especially after a few disastrous exs and breaking up with them. (Always hard). Now I am only ever honest with myself if I am lazy I will tell myself that. Truth is the best policy.
24 Jan
Well good for you :-)
24 Jan
Not in a mean way though. Spare some feelings of course lol
24 Jan
Of course
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481 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 1:09pm
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The truth because believe it or not it always comes out anyway

24 Jan
You are 100% correct my friend
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26 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 1:35pm
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Truth, always. It pisses me off when I ask someone a question and they ask if I want to hear the truth. No, b***h, give me the best fairytale you can come up with!!!

24 Jan
Well said
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15 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 5:55pm

The truth, good or bad. The truth inevitably comes out in the long run so there's little point in lying. That said, there is a big difference between blunt, hurtful truth and tactful truth, and it's important to know when to use which one.

24 Jan
I'm always the bad guy for telling the truth, but such is life. Some of history's greatest men and women were killed for telling the truth, so I can't complain
24 Jan
I agree :)
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17 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 8:56pm
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Truth. Helps me strengthen myself!

24 Jan
Good insight
24 Jan
Thanks in time I had to realize it.lol n its good learning tool for my boys as well!
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Jan 24, 2014 9:58pm

@Terry: I doubt you're really the bad guy - you seem pretty level-headed to me. Most people just don't like to hear the truth in response to questions they've asked, and get offended when it's actually offered. I tell my friends and family that they shouldn't ask me questions they don't want the honest answer to because that's what they'll get.

People know the truth, deep down, when they're asking for affirmation or vindication; they just don't want to own up to it or face it.

Correct on the history. It's those who unapologetically tell the truth and stand for their beliefs that we remember.

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56 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 10:02pm
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Truth

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130 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 10:47pm
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I am surprised Terry you find it shocking that we ladies have opted for the truth. We don't play with fools. If something needs to be told which would end up hurting us later on tell the truth. But most importantly you always need to continue being truthful to yourself. If you lie to yourself of course expect others to lie to you.
I will not say anything to anyone for the sake of it.
I had to break up with a few exs and saying the truth that I was no longer in love with them, hurt but true.  The responses unforgivable.
So truthful behaviour wins hands down for me.

By the way I agree with heather you seem like a really cool and nice person

24 Jan
Thank u! You do to!
25 Jan
Thank you. :)
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91 Posts
Feb 1, 2014 9:40pm
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Definitely the truth. Lies don't help me fix what's messed up. I hate liars...

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47 Posts
Feb 1, 2014 11:30pm
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Definitely truth.

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28 Posts
Feb 2, 2014 12:47am
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Truth with honesty.

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185 Posts
Feb 24, 2014 1:10pm
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The truth. Because what's the point if you're living a lie, it's all gonna come crashing down at some stage, and I'd rather it be at the start when I'm told the truth, so I can rebuild myself better and stronger from the start (I took this in the context of having someone cheat on you/break your heart. I don't know why. Probably says something about me ahah
24 Feb
I like it - you're very insightful and thoughtful - I can tell that you're a decent person - Keep that!
25 Feb
Oh why thankyou :) I can tell that you are a very considerate and encouraging person.. Keep THAT up! :) haha. Oh I'm soooo funny :}D
26 Feb
Lol thanks sweetie
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10 Posts
Feb 25, 2014 10:10pm
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I like to know the truth. I hate thinking that everything seems fine but maybe something is going on in the background you dont know.
When I first met my bf he used to be scared to tell me stuff because he didnt want to upset me... not realising it hurt way more to be told later on and feel embarrassed and hurt for not noticing earlier. If you want to be the best person you can you need to have constructive feedback! :)

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73 Posts
Feb 26, 2014 3:10am
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TRUTH

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33 Posts
Feb 26, 2014 9:25am
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Truth even if the guy I loved was cheating on me I'd rather know so I can pack his shit up ;) haha
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