Got a question for the ladies.

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Nov 12, 2013 12:10pm
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I'm trying to get in shape and I want to impress my wife. My overall goal is to bulk up but I wanted to know what you ladies prefer on a guy big arms or nice Abbs so I can impress my wife. So which is in big arms or 6-pack?

12 Nov
Too sweet good luck though I'm certain she's impressed already
12 Nov
Flat pack and toned arms, thats sexyyyy
12 Nov
I think that's so awesome, what you're doing! I wish you much luck! She'll love you for it...
12 Nov
I like sixpacks
12 Nov
Six pack. But not over-defined.
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Nov 12, 2013 12:19pm
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Hmmm...tough choice personally I like a nice 6 pack its a little scary when the arms are too huge or worse: overworked trapezius I went out w/ a guy once who looked like he had tennis balls glued to himself underneath a tight fitting tee

12 Nov
Personally, if I had to pick between arms or abs, I would choose some big, muscled arms.
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35 Posts
Nov 12, 2013 12:32pm
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I like to hold onto big guns! Arms baby arms!!

12 Nov
See that's why this is a tough choice don't get me wrong I like a good set of guns...its usually the 1st thing I notice
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Nov 12, 2013 1:07pm
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First let me just say that it's awesome you still want to impress your wife! But second, if hers you want to impress then this question should be asked to her. Everyone's opinion is different but hers is the only one that matters. If her response is your perfect just how you are, then just shoot for both abs and arms Good luck!

12 Nov
Yeah its awesome you still want to impress her. I like a strong chest , broad shoulders and big arms. That is more impressive than a six pack.
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1059 Posts
Nov 12, 2013 2:06pm
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Imo go for your own goals and impress her with reaching them ( and your improves body )

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9 Posts
Nov 12, 2013 2:48pm
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Arms are a huge turn on!!!

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Nov 12, 2013 8:20pm
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Abs
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Nov 13, 2013 12:22am
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Ye well, im only 17 but heard women love a nice back :) ofcourse abs and arms are nice too :p (tip: train triceps for big arms, looks better as well).

Ow anf i am a guy haha ;p

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Nov 13, 2013 2:26am
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6 packĀ 
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Nov 13, 2013 2:34am
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Arms...let's be honest, they look nicer because you can see them through your shirt, unlike your stomach, and a six pack looks like you are trying too hard. After all, what girl doesn't like a man who can pick them up and look good doing it? You are married and most women don't mind if you don't have a six pack but like when they can see your lean, muscular arms (especially if it attracts attention from other women starting at her man). No matter the advice, you know Herr best so go with your gut...honestly, no matter which you choose, I assure you she will appreciate your effort best of all!

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Nov 13, 2013 6:55am
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I think the best look is when it's in proportion. If I had to choose tho, abs ;) good luck, it's a very nice way to show her that ur making an effort.

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Nov 13, 2013 8:39am
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If you don't want to ask her directly (cuz everyone is different and it's HER preference you want) you might try occasionally showing her pics of different body type celebs and models, and see what she says. You don't even have to do it all in one day or week so it's all noticeable, since you're not gonna reach that goal overnight. You can just occasionally show her a pic like "wow what do you think of this guy"

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Nov 13, 2013 12:19pm
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Thanks everyone y'all been really helpful

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265 Posts
Nov 13, 2013 12:57pm
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You definitely need your wife's opinion on this. I like Patrick's idea.
Personally, I think proportion is important so both.

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