Ladies, what do you think of men nowadays?

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392 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 3:30am
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Are they decent or indecent?

22 Jan
It varies , all men aren't the same.
22 Jan
Chivlary is dead, men only want sex
22 Jan
Wats wrong with wanting sex
22 Jan
I agree with Holly
23 Jan
Some of the boys at my schools are really rude, others are nice.
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6 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 4:17am
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Ruuuun ... that's what I think;)
But honestly,  it all depends on a man. Some are sweet and nice.. others are perverse morons.

06 Mar
Just becuase most men fall into those 2catergories dosent mean those are the only type of men out there
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482 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 5:31am
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I thnk tht women ain't much different thn men these days infact id say their is more good men sometimes then women

22 Jan
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23 Jan
Men are more grounded while women tend to be very fickle. You can't have pie and ice cream.
23 Jan
Men and women both can be fickle its not a characteristic of being female its an individual thing ..
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38 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 5:58am
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I have a man and I love him.....  But men these days, ugh.... I don't even know where to start...

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15 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 1:15pm
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Most men aren't really men anymore; they're adult-sized teenagers who almost refuse to hold themselves accountable for anything other than self gratification. There are some legitimate men out there, but they're few and far between.

23 Jan
That's cause you go out with tards who don't have much of a brain. When pursuing something you always give up something else.
23 Jan
And who, exactly, are you to comment on who I date? My boyfriend is far from a 'tard', unless you would define that as someone who is incredibly hardworking, driven, knows exactly what he wants, is committed to family and friends, is well educated and incredibly successful. My comment was in reference to all of those I've chosen not to date.
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35 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 1:31pm
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Its interesting to see how the world is these days with the ever growing cyberworld self absorbing, im ok stuff the rest, I can see where todays chilvary lack of community and relationship problems are based.

22 Jan
I agree; it works both ways, and both men and women have become more self-absorbed and self-interested. It's a shame, and a pretty lengthy discussion if you really dig into it.
22 Jan
Not worth the discussion. We all get further from our selves and sit in proud material confidence in the modern day.
22 Jan
Question : @ben what does tht mean? What is proud material?
22 Jan
Material possesion...bling, technolgy the flash stuff its like how we try to prove ourselves to the world these days...its not family its not friends or community, they are the things that we need to build ourselves on
23 Jan
Too damn narcissistic. Working out for most people isn't even about attaining good health but instead good looks.
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130 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 1:53pm
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Most men are very kind and generous (ie let you on the packed train first etc). Only an odd few show no nice behavior. :( shows how the world is

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12 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 4:30pm
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Most of em are all talk I mean they really suck lol but my babe...he is they best lol

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55 Posts
Jan 22, 2014 4:47pm
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People are people. Some are nice, some are jerks. We all face the human condition head on and fear being alone and forgotten. It's how we deal with this is what makes us who we are.
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Jan 22, 2014 9:58pm
There is more to a relationship than just sex
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482 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 12:15am
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Ok I get it now ..tho ths is not new all through history their has been those who cared more for what they got then who they got...its no more new then selfishness itself is..but morality and immorality is anther ball game itself its as different as football is to baseball... it seems tht once what was considered wrong has now become acceptable and more thn tht normal ...to look on men an say they are cavemen like immoral indecent or even teenage like would be failure of me for women I've noticed hav slipped even further in the dregs of  society and even ths is not new...seeing as every generation rises to a new low tht the generation before it would have never thought to sucumb to ...history just repeats itself

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6 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 12:19am
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Maybe we should start looking at the beautiful side of human rather than the ugly side?

23 Jan
Maybe women should stop expecting so much of men. Why should he pay for dinner when you can pay your fair share as well.
23 Jan
If you're going to sleep with him it shouldn't be because he paid for the entire date.
23 Jan
Their is no " bright side " their is only man's opinion of what is bright or what is ugly...fact is fact opinion is opinion...their is good and bad in every human I see ths a th whole of the individual its reality
23 Jan
Traditions...y is it always up to the brides family to pay for the entire wedding whn his can pay their fair share?
23 Jan
To be honest I haven't seen that. At least in bigger cities both parties (usually the spends more) usually save to pay for the wedding.
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47 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 12:28am
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People in general have become self absorbed and feeding into auto pleasure before others.
    But the question is about men. I feel like men, in my little corner of the world are scared of commitment.  They have forgotten what value their word should hold as men.
        Have been seen a number of unfaithful men in the last couple of months,  it hits close to home. Why cheat, why not end one relationship and start another. Why do they feel entitled to take a good woman and make her their game. They want the family and the lover?  How? Why? When did a promise of forever not become enough?
      Yes, I feel our pool of men to choose from have become of less quality. I feel I have done my part and kept my way of living as something I would be proud of. Yes the discussion will be both have lowered their standards and values.
      I still believe there is a few good men and at its time I will have one. Hopefully one as loving and faithful as my daddy!

23 Jan
Funny men ask the same questions about women...women do the exact same things....
23 Jan
Because women scare the bejesus out of men by being so fickle with their emotions.
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47 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 12:32am
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Because that the way it should be. I believe woman were created as a weaker sex. To be pampered and cared for by her man. While at the same time she cares for him and edifies and builds him up. Just my take on what has been and should be. Society has evolved and many may disagree, but I believe both people should be accomplished and treat eachother with respect.

23 Jan
This only works if you take on a traditional role which most women do not at this time.
23 Jan
Maybe we should as a society instill this in our children, didn't happen in our generation, well then lets work for the future ones to have a chance and not to be influnced by all these media portals influencing us each day
23 Jan
No it works whn a mother and dad make the right decisions and teach their children likewise
23 Jan
If your influenced by th media thn get rid of the influence your in control of what you whatch and what you dnt not the media your children deserve th best your the one who can give it to thm
23 Jan
Well its not only the media influencing or drastic change in behavior but I feel as a society we havr become numb and accept certain down grades. Yes I belueve we r in control of what we watch and what r children watch. I completely agree as parents we instill the good and really hope they will take to heart and truly live it.
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38 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 12:32am
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We go through relationships for a reason,  whether good or bad.  It makes us who we are today. Just another life lesson. Sure does make you question who to trust though.

23 Jan
Thts true
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47 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 12:38am
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And guys just close up and run. Its not fair to say that of all guys or all women. Yes we r more emotional beings, but then speak with the truth from the get go. We as society are too scared to speak up and ask for what we deserve and want.

23 Jan
All women dnt speak the truth frm th get go...some men may run but some women do to many men has been left and children abandoned by their wives by their mothers..its both the sad thing its alot of times th good guys and good girls tht get left behind
23 Jan
You shouldn't be scared to speak your mind. Ideas and language shape this world we are in.
23 Jan
@ Jack how did u get tht perception?
23 Jan
Yes Hanna and Jack I agree that both sexes are to blame. So why cant we just take what we learned and build from there. Haven't we had enough heartbreak? My humble opinion. Totally agree we are both to blamr
23 Jan
We shouldn't but we still are scared or in denial of what we really want Jack.
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47 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 12:45am
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True so then maybe we should as a society begin to instill these roles into our children, but with what we have learned :To listen to eachother, communicate, value each other, edify, and faithfulness and loyality.

23 Jan
YES !!!!!!! thts exactly what we should do and also be the person we say they should b
23 Jan
So agree but how do we get society to oblige and let go of allthe filth that is circulating in the media. We know what's good, we know what works so why go to a totally different extreme. Its tough, but I think it can be done.
23 Jan
The golden rule that has survived through the ages: Do not do onto others as you would not want done onto you.
23 Jan
Less exposure to the media's conglomerate machine of mind consumption the better off you are. You want to interact on platform where you're being an active participant (like this) and not just a recipient.
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274 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 4:35am
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I think it's pretty simple. Guys don't want to be chivalrous to a girl who is too nice, too eager to do things etc... We like the thrill of the chase, not a girl who seems desperate. I know I try harder for a girl who won't throw it all on the table so early.

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Jan 23, 2014 5:31am
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Just jumping in here.....  As a guy do you ladies think there are fewer manly men around these days?
Too many of them around today with skinny jeans and limp-wristed hand shakes.  What happened?

23 Jan
Probably Korean and Japanese pop culture have redefined what a good looking guy is. Look at those celebrities...
24 Jan
I can't stand a limp handshake!!!!!! My dad couldn't either I guess thts why I always notice it
01 Mar
Limp wristed hand shakes and no eye contact. Makes me feel like unworthy of their time. It feels like they say whatever instead of powerful assertive nice to meet you.
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274 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 6:39pm
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I thought about it and Here it is: the ladies who complain that all the guys they date are indecent are probably going for the guys who are out of their league. Males who are good looking, powerful, have money etc... want more. Guys who lack in some of those departments will settle for less, and try to hook a girl in for the long run, thus, the emergence of the nice guy. Girls, whether you admit it or not,  have a streak for the bad boy type. They don't want a guy to be too available, attendant to them, and so on at first. They don't want the guy that seems desperate either, so they seek out the wrong dudes. Alpha males radiate dominance, why chase after something when it all comes to you? If you have options, you will seem like a jerk. Everyone settles, but the males who have worth will always shoot higher.

I just gave myself goosebumps. Food for thought

24 Jan
Do you have a pet sabertooth by any chance? (Joking )
24 Jan
Im a guy who got into the job of his dreams snd picked up a girl who is way out of my league, Im not rich by any means but I know what I want in life with being confident and doing work that I love, chose to be a cop over a lawyer.
24 Jan
I respect that. Any girl who doesn't see that...doesn't see that doesn't deserve you.
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566 Posts
Jan 23, 2014 9:00pm
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"We accept the love we think we deserve" ---Perks of a wall flower


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Jan 23, 2014 9:38pm
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Although this is a WORKOUT APP. I must agree with what u said. Both men and women are neck and neck now. Both do the same act the same and even talk the same. You can hardly tell which is which now. People have become lovers of themselves only very selfish and they love money.

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Jan 24, 2014 3:12am
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Chivalry died when women started calling it thirst. You try to take a girl out for a nice dinner, and try to get to know her. All she thinks you want is sex. At least in my experience. I hope you ladies are different!

24 Jan
Those kinda women give us a bad name :/
24 Jan
Yer just like the lacker men give us a bad name..
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72 Posts
Jan 24, 2014 2:22pm
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Guess people just need to look for the right friends and oeople to hang out with instead of just accepting people who are up themselves and obsessed with sex.. look for someone who has better morals and values.. maybe that are similar to yours. Thats how I found my girlfriend.. we met through friends, have very similar morals and values and beliefs and we choose not to have sex until after we are married.
We are best friends and hav been together almost 5 years, I still tell her she is beautiful and open doors for her and other nice things that men apparently lack these days. Its not all men there are great guys out there just find them and dont settle for anything less because you deserve it and deserve to be pampered and run around after. I will never take my girl for granted

24 Jan
Good man!
01 Mar
Proof there's still gentlemen out there. :)
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Jan 25, 2014 12:25am
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Chivalry isn't dead. I was raised to respect women. Ladies first, open doors, etc. I'm teaching my son the same thing.

25 Jan
There's a difference between being chivalrous and just plain creepy. The other day, I was actually scolded for not opening the door for a woman. I hold doors open for women, but I will not race past them if they are ahead of me to open the door. That's just stupid. If my date approached the passenger side of the car before I did, I'm not going to tell her to wait while I run around the car to open it for her. I will, however, if we reach the door at the same time. Chivalry should be a nice...

 

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