This is not sport related.
Im engaged to get married next year I have a son and my fiancee has a daughter. She is showing signs shes not happy with me in the picture quite literally. She came to our house with a drawing of her mum and dad and other people. She told me that im not in it cause there was no room but its of her dad and mum never mentioned who the other people were. They had been seperated for almost a year before we got together now coming on 2 years. The picture is on the fridge and I might be very much a drama queen. I try very hard with his daughter I do everything I can. My son doesnt see his dad so maybe easy for my side of things. But im hurt cause what else can I do? I know its just a picture but it speaks volumes on how she feels. Am I looking at it the wrong way?
Shes only 5 buts shes very grown up for a 5 year old. When it was her dads birthday she gave him a present from her but said this is from my mum and looked right at me and smiled. Am I looking at this all wrong?
She may act older than her age and all that but at the end of the day she's 5. Both verbal/non verbal 5 year old expresses self through actions, you can be in her pictures should you take a mother/family role in her life. She draws what she feels, smells, see and assumes. It's okay to talk to her if you and your man find fit, understand that at 5 years, if she miss the point of your message, it may trigger not the best outcome. Spend time with her, do activities and support her passion, love her as a daughter and step... Kids reads body language more than you can imagine, be cheerful around her, be you, avoid these feelings of her not liking you and slowly but surely, things may turn out great...
I am scared things get made worse. I try really hard. I will make more of a effort to do more activities with her. I wish I could be more like my fiancee and have the laid back attitude. I feel guilty because my wee boy has also had to deal with the fact that he's had just me and all to himself for 7years and in the space of a year we've moved out our house to stay with my fiancee and his daughter when she stays. im working alot and its long hours to so he's always in bed when I come home so only see him for 10 mins in the morning some days. My fiancee daughter won't sleep at night and will often cry for about 2 hours before she falls asleep. My son is sound asleep within a half hour of going to bed.
Change brings along questions and a lot of what if, most, if not all 5 year old needs sense of security, love, attention and someone that will cherish them no matter what, as long as you're being a good role model/mom, you will get through this phase. Is okay to be scared, worried and deal with unknowns but it's golden to stay on the path of that will lead to positive outcome... stay strong, sacrifice a little of your time and consider yourself the glue that will put all these together
I didn't have time to read the whole story but i suggest you work out your arms, shoulders, legs, tights and butt.
Just keep moving a couple days a week. Example, Morning runs