Need some advice ladies!! Please:)
How do you ladies feel about your guy flirting like casually? I think its human to do it sometimes..what do you ladies or men think? Thanks
Flirting is okay as long as its just that. And flirting in front of your partner is a big no no.
When someone STARTS flirting with you and you partner catches it...LADIES, WE ARE NOT AT FAULT.
It's ok, like Lee t. Said, as long as it's just that.
I do it, not when I'm with my significant other....it's disrespectful.
Thank you Maribel. There are understanding women in this world.
I was in a situation where I was on a phone call an a young sales lady started flirting with me. My gf, at the time, heard everything.
Long story short, I was at fault because I was in there trying make a purchase. FOR MY GF. lol I still laugh til this day.
It's fine, but as long as he/she does not take it any further....But there are some who would say that flirting is wrong if you are in a relationship.. I guess it's just really up to who you are in a relationship with...If they don't like the flirting you should respect them and your relationship enough not to flirt...
I personally think of flirting as showing that u are attracted to someone and that you would like to show that you are attracted to them...
In my opinion the only reason you should want to flirt is if you are single.
1. Because if youre in a relationship you don't really need to tell others that you are attracted to them because it would be disrespectful to your partner
2. Because you are showing an interest in someone and if they show it back and you are already in a relationship your kinda wasting peoples time if you know what I mean.
That's just my opinion on flirting...
Flirting can also be a bit of a confidence booster I suppose if you want a lil attention or fun without meaning anything. It's just the leading people on thing gotta be careful of that.
Thanks guys for all your input!! I agree with you guys. I personally am in a serious relationship of almost 4 years and refrain from flirting i feel like i would be disrespectful to my significant other that is purely my opinion
As I was reading thru the comments it got me thinking...
Flirting PERIOD is wrong, this is the reason why I say that.
Obviously, if your single...do what you want. But if you're not...it's bad news anyway you look at it.
Picture this, you and your partner just had a fight...you or he goes for a walk to let some stream out. A conversation turns into flirting with a random stranger...then numbers are exchanged.
Now, I'm speaking from a males perspective and I know "not all guys are the same"...but if you have a "8====D" you want to put it in as many females as you can. I once heard that "the males main goal in life is to procreate. To keep his bloodline going". Like the lion.
If guys are like this...why can't girls? Maturity level also plays a roll in this but once you start to flirt with someone you find attractive, MATURITY LEVEL GOES OUT THE WINDOW.
I haven't ever had a problem with my exes flirting... In front of me or not... However there is probably a reason I'm single... So unless you're girl is easygoing about it your probably better off not doing it
I don't like it, I believe it's okay as long as he's not overdoing it. In fact it can be funny. But personally I have no tolerance for it. I'm really picky about men, they need to be mountainous, careing, laid back, basically if you've ever heard cat powers silver stallion, that's what he has to be. My idea of perfect. That means he's there for me. I thought I'd be single forever. I was considering becoming asexual for a while. Then I found him at the green age of 18, and he doesn't flirt with anyone, in fact, he's oblivious. Hold out young lady, hold out for the right one!
I think trust plays a big role here,depends how strong your rele is,Ive been single a while and have alot of guy friends,we all come to each other for advice and know our weak and strong points,my friends will always come first.I have however met someone I may start seeing whos in two bands,Ive been struck by the green eyed monster but now think if someones going to cheat they will anyway,Im an actress so we are both entertainers,also sing.Its human nature to flirt a bit,I was v shy once but my friends were terrible flirts,now I know enjoy a bit of flirting but you know theres a line once crossed hard to go back,we all human!
I don't mind my partner flirting. But I feel embarrassed when he sometimes downright stares at women, mainly because I know how uncomfortable it makes me feel when strange men glare at me. I don't think he himself is even aware of the staring though. So it's really not the fact that he looks at other women that makes me uncomfortable as much as the possibility that the women being stared at might find it intimidating.